We all go through these situations in life in which we don’t feel too capable. We know how it feels going through the days with uncertainty about our projects, plans, and especially about our own lives. However, there are ways to get rid of that feeling. There are ways to stand more powerful in life. There are ways to live a better life with greater love, power, and quality. There are ways to create that reality you want for yourself and for your loved ones.
Most of the time, we don’t do things only for ourselves. We want to reach goals for the people we love or to help other people. The question is, how much do we love and understand ourselves? In this search or “quest” to make others happy and achieve certain goals, we might lose ourselves. We might be pleasing others too much, and we might forget ourselves and the importance of that person making everything happen, AKA YOU.
If you are an intelligent and ambitious woman, who has an honest wish to change the world and create something for yourself, like a business, it makes sense and it will greatly help to use a set of guidelines to help you go through this process of change you need to overcome to be able to achieve your big goal.
Yes, and your goals are big, because they feel big, far, and unreachable, and you do not know sometimes where to start, and there is also so much to do in your daily life. However, then you keep losing yourself in daily trivia, without realizing that you are procrastinating or simply not finding the way to create your best future.
What are the consequences of your current patterns and behavior?
The consequences of your current behavior are leaving your wishes and goals behind, becoming a victim of your circumstances rather than a game changer, but also in the life of others who otherwise you could be positively influenced by your activity.
Moreover, it might become a spiral in which you start experiencing a lot of problems in your life for example due to changes in your financial status, in your position in life, in your ability to achieve your life goals, making you altogether feel less powerful, affecting the image you have of yourself.
And let’s face reality. If you don’t do anything, things are not going to change either. “Nothing changes, if nothing changes” exemplified this. Not even your good intentions will change your situation. Only you, and your active role in changing your life and taking a positive stand will turn things around.
Do you really want to make a change in your life? If so, I have a solution for you and before we go into that, let me tell you, my story.
After I gave birth to my second child, things started for me to get different at work. I did not enjoy any more what I was doing, and I did not see the future any longer in that job. At the same time, I met one of the biggest figures in personal development, Mr. Bob Proctor, who personalized that person reaching an amazing big goal and changing many people's lives through his work. I felt I knew what was next, and I wanted to make changes in my life.
I quit that job that did not make me realise and satisfied about my life. I took on the challenge of starting a coaching business, and I invested quite a lot of money in (most of my savings) in a coaching franchise and in courses and trainings, just to find out after 3 years that growing the business was not what I expected. I tried different techniques, different ideas, and different methods, but none of this worked, until I took the decision to drastically change the way I was doing things to make sure I would get to my goal. All these failures made me realize one single thing after the years: I needed to become first a person of success, to bring success into my life.
I needed to improve the management of my time, my habits, relationships, my emotions, the reason I build my business, my vision. I needed to go through a reorganization within myself, to ensure my business would grow.
“All your suffering is rooted in one superstition- you believe that you live in the world, when in fact the world lives in you”. Deeprak Chopra
You are probably feeling at this point frustrated and desperate about not been able to reach the results you wanted or dreamed of when starting a business. You might have lost the confidence you had at the beginning. You might have even put your dream aside, in the hope that one day it will become alive again, when only YOU can make it happen. It is also obvious that most people do not understand the power of your wish.
If you don’t change the current situation and take the right actions guided by your best-self, you are going to take the risk of losing your big dream forever. You will be distracted as you are now, and you will not be able to make the kind of difference you want in this world.
It is time to choose for yourself by building this big goal you want, making an impact in the world through your knowledge and experience. You know deep inside that it makes sense to continue, but you might think you are not worth it or somehow competent to reach it. This is how we “humans” are.
For this reason, I created a method to help entrepreneurs in the way they perceive and interact with the world, to make them aware and responsible about themselves, their thoughts, emotions, and actions, to bring permanent changes into their lives that allow them to create and run a successful business. The objective is to make them ready to create a new reality, the reality they want for themselves and the people they love that involves reaching their important business and life goals.
I support my clients in the journey of creating their best selves and achieving their goals, in the same way they will prepare for an important exam. By making the first time to study, prepare, taking care of themselves, building the right habits, and finally do the necessary work to get the results they want.
If you want to know more, feel free to contact me using the link below.